![]() Ever wonder if letting your dog cuddle next to you on the couch is harmless… or harmful? If you’re dealing with resource guarding, barking, or any dominant behavior in your home, it’s time to take a closer look at couch privileges—and how they may be contributing to big problems in your pack. The Couch Isn't Just a Couch: In dog language, elevation means power. When a dog jumps on the couch, they’re not just getting comfy—they’re accessing a high-value space. If your dog is already struggling with issues like resource guarding, jumping up without permission can reinforce dominance behaviors. Think of it this way: in a dog pack, the highest spot is usually reserved for the leader. So when your pup claims that spot without being invited, they're essentially saying, “I’m in charge here.” And that mindset can bleed into other areas like food guarding, toy possession, or even aggressive posturing with guests or other pets. Our Client Experience: I once worked with a family who had a sweet, beautiful dog—but she would snap when someone came near her on the couch. The family was heartbroken, thinking it was a flaw in her personality. But when we removed couch privileges for a few weeks and implemented structure, her guarding behavior disappeared almost entirely. The couch had become her throne, and without it, she settled happily into a more respectful, calm role in the home. Rules Must Be the Same—No Matter the Dog: In a multi-dog household, consistency is everything. If one dog is allowed on the couch but another isn’t—especially if that rule is based on size or perceived behavior—it can cause serious confusion and tension between the dogs. Dogs speak the same language, no matter their breed or size, and they notice every nuance in how you treat each member of the pack. When different dogs are given different rules, you can start seeing power dynamics shift. Some dogs may begin guarding the space from others, instigating fights or even marking the couch to claim it. This is especially common when one dog is regularly given more access or freedom than another. Even if you have a tiny 10-lb lap dog and a big 70-lb doodle, the rules should be the same. Not because the little one can’t handle the couch—but because dogs thrive on fair, clear boundaries. Same species, same rules. Couch Privilege vs. Couch Chaos: We’re not saying no couch cuddles—just that it needs to be earned. Implement a “permission-based” system where your dog is invited onto the couch only after offering calm, respectful behavior. And if you're dealing with any behavioral issue—whether it's mild anxiety or full-blown reactivity—step one is removing that privilege entirely until trust and structure are rebuilt. This isn't about punishment. It's about communication. You're showing your pup that leadership is clear, consistent, and based on trust—not status or demand. Final Thoughts: In my training programs, I always recommend removing couch privileges entirely if a dog is displaying any behavioral challenges. Then, once balance is restored, you can reintroduce access as a privilege that must be requested and earned. For new puppies, start this structure from day one. That little wagging fluffball should be asking to come up—not assuming they own the place. What about your pup—couch king or permission-based prince/princess? Let me know your house rules below!
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